I wrote this entry the other night - and then my laptop ate it because I bumped something on the mouse "pad" thingy and typed a key that closed the window. And it happend twice! Annoyance.
We'll see if I can remember half of what I wanted to say.
So guess who has strep throat now? Oh yes, John was kind enough to share. For the next few days we will be boiling our toothbrushes to disinfect them and then maybe when I'm done with the antibiotics we'll switch to brand new?
I think we're going to buy new pillows and get all the bedding washed this weekend as well. I've been throwing glasses into the dishwasher every day so that we don't keep using the ones we've already used for water and what not. I guess if nothing else it's helping keep the house cleaner.
John had a little crying jag/break down the other night. Expressing his deep sorrow for having hurt me/us by not just telling me where he was and that he needed to crash - (to be honest, yeah I would have felt weird that he was at a chicks place, but I wouldn't have felt betrayed) - and sobbed through it saying that he doesn't know why he couldn't tell me, doesn't know why he lets his fear of losing me or upsetting me win and make the wrong call. He wishes he could go back and do what he should have done so that we could be happy again and not fight all the time and that I would trust him and not have to question what's in his phone and fully believe him and that he doesn't know why I've stayed with him even before this that he doesn't deserve me and I deserve so much more - someone who can support you and a family which he'll never be able to do.
It was heartbreaking. I asked him if he's ever let go of things like this with his therapist and he said no. I told him that I think he needs to... he has an intake appointment or something on the 17th - so send prayers that he'll finally find the right therapist who will get him to get all of this out. He has a lot of anger and selfishness built up from I think middle school/high school ages - kids picked on him a lot - and mentally, I'm not sure what we'll find out is *wrong* with him. But I just pray that we'll find the right person and the right diagnosis because there has to be someone out there that can help him. I can't. I'm glad I can say that - but I can love him.
He is planning on talking to a career counselor from his college - maybe to find out what he would really like to do that he can make a living at more easily than theater.
My poor crazy man child. I'm also hoping that Pastor K will get in touch with us soon regarding the results so we can move forward with our premarital counseling as well.
Pick up dance lessons again next week - guess who hasn't practice? Yup, that would be us. Hopefully I can feel better and we can get some of that in this weekend.
It's good to be back at work - kind of - would have LOVED to have worked from home today - cuz i'm sleepy sleepy right now.
OH - so lately I find myself waking up to use the restroom or something and I'll sit on the edge of the bed before standing up and next thing you know, I wake up as I'm falling back onto John because I've fallen asleep. Is there such a thing as sleep sitting?
Back to work I go... <3
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